Hazel Said:

Where r all the jobs at in Indianapolis? I have a job but I need another one that pays please write back soon.

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what type of job are you looking for? there are jobs out there, you just have to look for them.

Benjamin Said:

Do you live in Indianapolis && looking for a babysitter? Are you not wanting to pay alot?

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Wow your crazy.

Melvin Said:

recommend a grad school in Indiana?

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So far I like [My Nickname I don't know!!!]'s answer best regarding the information about schools.

But I would recommend seeing a psychiatrist regarding your social skills.

It is very common for anxiety issues or disorders to make it difficult to be yourself or fumble around during social interactions or situations.
Agoraphobia would be the extreme end of the spectrum.

There are some mild medications available that could ease your anxiety if that is the case.
You could always try a medication such as Klonopin as needed before a social situation occurs.

If you notice that your social skills improve then that is the best way to confirm the diagnosis.

Most likely after about 6 months when you have been able to have successful social interaction, thus gaining more confidence the anxiety disorder will resolve itself to the point medication will no longer be needed.

It can also be therapeutic to speak to a therapist while you are working to resolve this. I would recommend doing that regardless if medication is prescribed.

The fact that it is effecting a major part of your life more then justifies seeking a professional advice.

The drawback with Klonopin is that the dependency rate is high.
It works in a similar way alcohol does in the brain but without any intoxication or feeling loopy side effects.

So you wouldn't want to take it unless absolutely necessary and also for the shortest about of time possible.
Save it for situations which require heavy social interactions.

Anti-depressants work to permanently change the chemical balance in your brain and have much and unsavory greater side effects.

Of course anything your medical professional prescribes overrules anything I have to say.
But it is always OK to insist that your health professional give you more then one option and go over the side effect of each one.
If they can't think of more then one option then you need to find another mental health professional.

Never allow your primary care physician to prescribe brain altering medication such as anti-depressants.
Too often then not primary care doctors without enough education in the area will try to resolve it themselves, it is arrogant and not safe.

Many HMO's give their doctors kudos and sometimes even bonuses for not giving patients specialist referrals simply because it saves the HMO money. You insurance card should have right on it whether you have a HMO or PPO insurance coverage.

They should be understanding if you tell them you would be more comfortable having a psychiatrist evaluate you before you are going to commit to any medications that alter your brains chemistry.

If you have a PPO just find a psychiatrist on your health insurance plan and go see them.

If you do not have medical insurance please add to your post including what State and City you live in. So I may edit mine and give you alternative resources for receiving care.

Joshua Said:

I need help with my english class... writing paraphrases and summaries?

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The first step is to rewrite it in your own words. Take out descriptive terms like "thrilling language" and focus on the facts. That should provide your summary. Next, determine what the point of the paragraph is (what is it telling you?) and try to convey that in two sentences or less. That's your paraphrase.

April Said:

How important is location relative to family when deciding where to work?

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I moved away from my family when I was 17 and I visit them at least twice every year. I'm only 5 hours away from them though.

You can talk to your family on the phone every day, and get a webcam so you can see them every day. Your family will still be there for you, no matter where you live. Your career is very important - the better you do, the more happier your family will be. If you are concerned about leaving, talk to your family members. Talk to them each separately and see what they say. I bet your mom will be the only one who doesn't want you to go.

Lee Said:

I need some career advice.?

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IUPUI's career center should provide help for alumni seeking jobs. Have you checked in with them lately?
Continue to apply with all local communications companies such as Emmis, etc.
Look for jobs in Chicago, Cincinnati, Louisville, Nashville, TN, and St. Louis.
Network - see The Job Hunter's Bible web site for more information. You can get the book at the library.