Debbie Said:

What to write in a sympathy card to my grandfather?

We Answered:

Dear Grandpa, I am so sorry to hear about "Lady Friend's Name" and am sorry I wasn't able to be there in person, but I am thinking about you. Love, XXX

I think, too, that you should call him every so often, on the weekend if you have free weekend minutes. You don't need to have long conversations, but just let him know you hope he is doing ok.

Colleen Said:

Co-workers father just passed away, what should I write in her sympathy card?

We Answered:

"I'm sorry for your loss." If they or you are religious, you can add "You and your family are in my prayers during this difficult time."

Sam Said:

What to write in sympathy card?

We Answered:

A simple expression of sympathy and sorrow at their tragic loss should suffice. If you feel the need to do more, how about donating to a leukaemia research program in the daughter's name?

Guy Said:

What to write in a sympathy card to a child?

We Answered:

Let me start by saying you're really considerate and aware to address your sympathy to the baby's sister. I've heard stories about children who lost a sibling and felt invisible because no one recognized their suffering; they mainly just acknowledged the grief of the parents.

When it comes to writing the card, your task is simple. The best thing to do for all people-- and especially kids-- is to validate their feelings; to let them know that you hear them. This will help her to feel less alone and help her to sort out her own feelings (young kids sometimes need help understanding what they're feeling). So write about her feelings.

Try things like this:

I know how much you loved (your sister). You played so nicely with her.
Your sister loved you. She used to smile whenever you played with her, and you made her life a happy one.
I know how sad you must be right now.
Your parents love you very much. *[This is important because kids can often feel ignored and un-loved when they see their parents grieving for their sibling. They may even feel guilty for surviving. They need to be reassured that they are still loved and valued.]
If you need to talk to me don't hesitate to call me.

It's impossible to tell how this death will affect her, but at least, by making statements like these that echo her feelings, you'll be showing her that she's not alone.

On a side note, you may wish to advise your friend about this stuff. Often times the grief of losing a child can cause parents to overlook the emotional needs of their living children. Since the children are in a position to suffer huge guilt/trauma/anxiety, it's particularly important to support them and help them through it. You're taking one BIG step by acknowledging the 9-year-old's grief... I just hope that the family does the same.

Susan Said:

What to write in a sympathy card for a baby's parents?

We Answered:

this is a hard one just send your love and thoughts to them i cried when i read ur question life can be so cruel xx

Ellen Said:

What do you write in a uk sympathy card?

We Answered:

As well as "sorry for your loss" or "thinking of you" you could also write a lyrics or passage from the Bible that offers strength if youre religious, or write briefly a happy memory you have, or something to show you really are thinking of her and want to help her as much as you can. It depends of course on your relationship with the woman and with ehr late husband, but just write what you feel. I'm sure she'll really appreciate the sentiment. Don't think to much about it or it'll feel forced, just go with what you feel.

Hope this helps

Rafael Said:

Can someone please help me decide what to write in my sympathy card?

We Answered:

Dear ________,
My deepest sympathy is with you in your time of need. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
__________.

I'm sure she has received MANY cards so really it's not that important.